My Dog Is Not My Child. A Responsible Owner's Perspective

You can often hear people calling their dogs “children” or “fluffy babies.” Sure, dogs give us boundless love and devotion, but comparing them to children is not quite correct. Let’s figure out why.

A dog is not a child, but an adult predator

Despite the fact that dogs have lived side by side with people for many centuries, they have retained their natural instincts. A dog is not a defenseless creature in need of constant care. It is an adult predator that has its own unique abilities and needs.

Why can't you consider a dog a child?

Infantilization. When we treat a dog like a child, we limit its development and do not give it the opportunity to show its natural qualities.
Unfair expectations. Constant care and concern can give the dog a false idea of ​​the world in which it lives. A dog should not be dependent on a person every second.
Distortion of relationships. Comparing a dog to a child, we can unconsciously project our parental feelings and expectations onto it, which can negatively affect the relationship.

What should a responsible dog owner be like?

A responsible dog owner must understand that his pet is not just a toy, but a full-fledged member of the family.

The owner is obliged to:

Provide a leader. A dog needs a leader, and that leader should be a human. This does not mean cruelty or dominance, but rather the establishment of clear rules and boundaries.
Train the dog. Training is not only about the commands “sit” and “lie down.” It is the process of socializing the dog, which helps it adapt to life in human society.
Respect the dog’s needs. Each dog is an individual and has its own needs. The owner should devote time to active games, walks, and also provide the dog with everything it needs for a comfortable life.
Understand the dog’s instincts. Knowing the instincts will help the owner better understand the behavior of their pet and avoid many problems.

Why is it important to let a dog be a dog?

Dogs are wonderful precisely because they are dogs. They are loyal, devoted, and energetic. Let’s let them be themselves, giving them the opportunity to show their natural qualities.

Conclusion

The relationship between a person and a dog is a partnership based on mutual respect and understanding. A dog is not a child, but an adult companion who needs love, care and guidance. Let's be responsible owners and give our dogs a happy and fulfilling life.

Message to future owners

All our puppies go to families where they are expected by adults and responsible people who understand the seriousness of the decision they have made. We want our dogs to grow up in loving and caring families where they will be respected and appreciated for their uniqueness.

Remember: a dog is not a child, but your loyal friend and companion. Let's give them a happy life!

© Tetyana Lazko, co-owner of the kennel "Strider in Diversity kennel"